The new cultural hot spot Darling kicks off Pride Month

“You know, we struggled for a while,” he admits. “And then Romain and I sat together and thought: What do we do? What do we like to do? What do I excel at? And for us, it’s partying. That may sound stupid, but it’s true.” So they joined forces and created a dazzling day of queer delight. First, Al Masrahi is hosting an open stage at Volkshuis/Maison du Peuple. He assembled a flock of young LGBTQ artists to perform at the venue. Al Masrahi has some experience with open stages because he used to scout for talent for the cabarets where he worked. As he’s mostly known for his dance work, Al Masrahi expected voguers and dance queens to apply. But the open stage somehow ended up looking like a small queer music festival. Al Masrahi: “The stage is really begging for a show. So far ten artists have joined us, mostly musicians. If that’s what Brussels responds to, then that’s great. I love it. Cabaret is almost the only performative format Brussels knows. So people are still sort of shy about this kind of project. But this stage, this first year, is really to showcase talent. I hope it will grow.”

Is this what’s missing in Brussels’s club scene?
Romain Poterlé: It’s true that there is something we can’t find here. That is why we approached Zodiak, the club downtown. Together with the people of Last Days Of, we are hosting a diverse and dazzling party there. There will be three different rooms with different vibes. The main floor is dark techno, but there is also a playful love room on the second floor, with a set by Suzy Q. And on the third floor there will be vogue beats, Afrobeat, and 1990s house provided by DJs like the young art collective from Liège Lait de Coco or DJ Fais Le Beau of Gay Haze, who has made a sexy, joyful set. Just joyful and colourful, you know? There will also be vintage clothes from Think Twice, to help people dress up the way they want to and there will be a show of Ysatis Rivart, a graphic designer.

That almost sounds like it’s going to be a really big afterparty?
Poterlé: Yeah! Exactly. We are bringing the afterparty into the club. It is very innocent but at the same time crazy, sexy, and colourful. It’s like coming back from the rave you had the night before.
Aswad Al Masrahi: Don’t get us wrong, we love to rave. But afterparties…they’re a place where you finally just let go. Poterlé: We were inspired by the disco vibe. The craziness you see in pictures from the 1970s. People were dressed up, had costumes. There’s this rock ‘n’ roll vibe, but it’s so colourful, almost childish.
Al Masrahi: We’re channelling the atmosphere rather than the music, although I love that music. But the vibe! (His eyes twinkle and he raises his hands to the sky) The chill of it all, the hugs, the costumes, the dressing up for and with others.
Poterlé: Yeah, it’s a place where you can express yourself totally.

Is this what’s missing in Brussels’s club scene?
Romain Poterlé: It’s true that there is something we can’t find here. That is why we approached Zodiak, the club downtown. Together with the people of Last Days Of, we are hosting a diverse and dazzling party there. There will be three different rooms with different vibes. The main floor is dark techno, but there is also a playful love room on the second floor, with a set by Suzy Q. And on the third floor there will be vogue beats, Afrobeat, and 1990s house provided by DJs like the young art collective from Liège Lait de Coco or DJ Fais Le Beau of Gay Haze, who has made a sexy, joyful set. Just joyful and colourful, you know? There will also be vintage clothes from Think Twice, to help people dress up the way they want to and there will be a show of Ysatis Rivart, a graphic designer.

That almost sounds like it’s going to be a really big afterparty?
Poterlé: Yeah! Exactly. We are bringing the afterparty into the club. It is very innocent but at the same time crazy, sexy, and colourful. It’s like coming back from the rave you had the night before.
Aswad Al Masrahi: Don’t get us wrong, we love to rave. But afterparties…they’re a place where you finally just let go. Poterlé: We were inspired by the disco vibe. The craziness you see in pictures from the 1970s. People were dressed up, had costumes. There’s this rock ‘n’ roll vibe, but it’s so colourful, almost childish.
Al Masrahi: We’re channelling the atmosphere rather than the music, although I love that music. But the vibe! (His eyes twinkle and he raises his hands to the sky) The chill of it all, the hugs, the costumes, the dressing up for and with others.
Poterlé: Yeah, it’s a place where you can express yourself totally.

How essential is club culture to queer culture?
Poterlé: It really is a stage for LGBTQ people. It’s a place where people can express themselves. You go there to relax and enjoy yourself. And it’s a place where you can connect with people. You can really showcase what you’re made of. Come as you are, but be extra!
Al Masrahi: Club culture is one of the pillars of our communities. It comes from this concept of gathering, of coming together, and celebrating together. We party a lot, but we’ve forgotten to celebrate. Where’s the celebration? That may sound tacky, but I really love that. Us queers gotta stick together, and we do that through clubbing. Clubs are like temples. I feel like I belong to a community when I’m there.

A lot of the LGBTQ party scene organizers are white. Chris, the woman who runs Zodiak, is black, and you are both People of Colour (POC). How important is it that this is a POC-run enterprise? What does it mean to you?
Poterlé: It is very important. We bring something else to the table. We have different backgrounds and different cultural origins. We inspire each other, we learn from each other. Take spirituality for example. We’re going to put that in our club. It changes the atmosphere completely.
Al Masrahi: Exactly, we aim to mix lots of different things together. Techno downstairs and Afrobeat upstairs. Mixing the two together brings that little bit of extra that we are looking for.

How was the collaboration with Zodiak?
Poterlé: Chris actually came to us. She wanted to open her club to a different crowd. She’s really into it and looking forward to it. Al Masrahi: She is amazing. I’m grateful that a straight woman is so concerned about the LGBTQ community. She understands us.
Poterlé: It’s also brave of her to do that. It’s not her usual crowd. It’s a big step to shake the club a little and bring something new.

Ok, but why the name Darling?
Poterlé: Ah. (They both cackle with laughter) Darling!
Al Masrahi: It just goes with that disco mood we were talking about. Like Grace Jones used to say baby.
Poterlé: Or like Diana Ross! When you say “Darling”, you just see the glitter coming down. It’s very flirty but also cute. I love it!

> Brussels Open Stage 4/5, 19.00, Volkshuis/Maison du Peuple
> Love carnage :: last days Of x Darling 4/5, 23.00, Zodiak
> Pride festival 2 > 18/5, various locations